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    Notebook Entries June 2004
Notebook entry, June 27, 2004
From: EvolutionaryFem@comcast.net 
    To: darwin@hotmail.com 
    Subject: Beauty essay and new email address 
    Date: Sun, 27 Jun 2004 13:53:36 +0000 
    
    A funny thing happened when I was shifting your essays to the new evolutionary 
    
    feminism page -- Like I think I zapped it into the cyberspace. I really don't 
    
    know what happened, but up till now I can't find it on my space. Believe it 
    or 
    not, I have a note to remind me to look for the hard copy backup (yes, it 
    is a 
    good idea to back everything you do the old fashioned way with hard copies) 
    -- 
    That was weeks before you got back in touch with me, but since the move, it 
    
    could be in any box. I figure, it may take two weeks to find the hard copy.
So knowing that, your brave hero type guy me -- went out into 
    the cold cyberspace 
    called the Internet and found it on a site called beautyworld. They did ask 
    
    permission to post it with a link back to Evolution's Voyage, and guess what? 
    
    It has attracted some very good company and some good essays. 
I was pressed for time and could not copy and paste the essay 
    back to me and put 
    it where it belongs. But I do promise to do that sometime this weekend when 
    I 
    will proudly place it with your other works.
In the meantime, you can see your essay, along with others on 
    the subject at:
    
    http://www.beautyworlds.com/beautymodernstandards.htm
    
    Ok, you are now attached to the new email address, and I want to officially 
    
    welcome you back. Look out world, here comes Jennifer!!!
Best always,
    Bill
Notebook entry, June 27, 2004
More email catch-ups below:
From: "Jen L." <darwin@hotmail.com> 
    To: WilliamA@comcast.net 
    Subject: RE: Msg from Griet to Bill Spriggs (Fwd to Jennifer) 
    Date: Wed, 23 Jun 2004 16:27:33 +0000 
    
    Hello Bill,
    Glad to see you're getting settled! I've actually been away myself the last 
    
    few days; took an extended weekend to go to my cabin up north for my 
    Grandfather's birthday bash, and just got home last night. A much-needed 
    hiatus, I must admit! Seems to be the only time and place it's acceptable 
    
    for me to just duck into a quiet corner and power-read. With the peaceful 
    
    sounds of the north woods as a backdrop, you couldn't ask for anything more 
    
    therapeutic. My next indulgent purchase will be a laptop, so I can write in 
    
    the same kind of solitude; I just can't bring myself to hand-write anything 
    
    of substance-- way too slow to keep up with the thoughts pouring out of my 
    
    brain!
Anyway, just wanted to let you know I got your emails, and that 
    I've been 
    busy as well, so don't you guys worry about me. I'll be more in touch soon, 
    
    hopefully with some substantial thoughts down for you to mark up with a red 
    
    pen!
Jen
From: "Jen L." <darwin@hotmail.com> 
    To: William@comcast.net 
    Subject: RE: Request that you send to new email address 
    Date: Thu, 24 Jun 2004 17:05:47 +0000 
    
    
    Hey Bill,
    Question for ya- Is my article on beauty standards somewhere on your site 
    
    yet? I noticed most of my articles are now listed on the Ev. Feminism page 
    
    and the links work fine, but I didn't see the beauty one on there. They're 
    
    all listed on the Guest Essayists page, but the links are broken; I think 
    
    perhaps they were moved to a different directory and the old links failed 
    to 
    follow the new path. I'd kinda like to submit my Beauty article to a couple 
    
    of websites I've stumbled across; I've been doing some feminist scouring of 
    
    the net and found an amazing number of sites that deal strictly with issues 
    
    about weight, size and beauty issues; I figured, I could send them a link 
    to 
    my article on your site, and at the same time they'd catch a glimpse of Ev. 
    
    Feminism and perhaps get interested. (Aren't I sneaky??)
I will be using the new email address; I just figured there'd 
    be occasions 
    where my communication is bordering on the mundane- nothing you'd 
    necessarily want to post to the public. (hee hee.)
Jen
    ----Original Message Follows----
    From: WilliamA@comcast.net
    To: darwin@hotmail.com
    Subject: Request that you send to new email address
    Date: Wed, 23 Jun 2004 23:28:39 +0000
Great to hear that your back, but sorry that you will miss that 
    solitude of 
    the woods.
My new location is more quiet then the old as it is a house 
    is semi-rural 
    Lakewood ( a suburb west of Denver), but it doesn't matter because when I 
    
    write, I tend to focus so deeply that it almost is a trance. It is a great 
    
    consternation to Diana, but after all these years, she is slowly getting 
    used to it (that means she yells less to get my attention)
So, are you ready to build a new sub-discipline called evolutionary 
    
    feminism?
The first thing that I want you to do is to start using the 
    "discipline's 
    email" which I have created to communicate with me:
Evolutionary@comcast.net>
I use it to communicate with Griet and now I want to include 
    you into the 
    loop. It also means that I will begin to put these email exchanges into my 
    
    notebook section for future historians, as I know this is going to fly one 
    
    day....so no swear words, etc. --- salty and juicy language ok,, but, you 
    
    know what I mean.
That is all for now, and yes, please do get a laptop...perhaps 
    even one with 
    wireless capability. It is very cool to cruise the Internet from a lawn 
    chair.
I'll be in touch.
Bill
 ----Original Message Follows----
    From: WilliamA@comcast.net
    To: darwin@hotmail.com
    Subject: Msg from Griet to Bill Spriggs (Fwd to Jennifer)
    Date: Sun, 20 Jun 2004 12:38:27 +0000
Hey girl.
I sent a quick note to Griet about you and your email address, 
    and here is a 
    quick response"
"Thanks for sending me Jennifer's address. I have no time 
    to contact her at
    he moment, since I have to finish an article on Victorian women's reactions
    to evolutionary theories of female inferiority by the end of this week. The
    same for your new listing of books; sorry. But you'll hear from me again.
enjoy the new house!
Griet"
You were correct, she is very busy at the moment and so am I. 
    I am 
    desperately trying to unpack everything and get some order back into my life.
I'll be chatting with ya.
    Best, Bill
Notebook entry, June 26, 2004
More email catch-ups below:
From: WilliamA@comcast.net 
    To: Griet.Vandermassen@UGent
    Subject: RE: Msg fm Bill Spriggs (fwd) 
    Date: Mon, 14 Jun 2004 23:36:54 +0000 
    
    Hello again Griet.
I am forwarding an email from Jennifer Larson. Yes, the same 
    Jennifer Goehring 
    from a few years ago that "inspired" you. I think that it is only 
    logical that 
    you two meet via the internet. She is a true diamond in the rough and has 
    
    considerable talent; she needs academic feminists in which to converse with. 
    
    She lives in an isolated part of America with very few people that have our 
    
    interests to chat with. I direct you to her last two paragraphs. 
I will warn you: She has an increbible ability to write copious 
    amounts of 
    material. If you need your space and time -- tell her.
Hey, have a good week.
Best always, Bill
From: WilliamA@comcast.net 
    To: darwin@hotmail.com 
    Subject: Msg fm Bill Spriggs 
    Date: Mon, 14 Jun 2004 23:53:54 +0000 
    
    Hey, thanks for the quick reply. 
    I don't have time this evening to reply to entire message, and will do so 
    
    tomorrow if I have time. 
But, I do want to let you know that I have forwarded our email 
    conversation to 
    Griet Vandermassen in Belgium. I told her to see your last two paragraphs 
    and 
    in particular I told her that she needs contact with a real academic feminist.
I also told her to beware because you write copious amounts 
    of emails and if she 
    needed space to tell you to hush up.
Love ya.
    Be chatting with ya.
    Bill
From: "Jen L." <darwin@hotmail.com> 
    To: WilliamA@comcast.net 
    Subject: RE: Msg fm Bill Spriggs 
    Date: Tue, 15 Jun 2004 15:28:11 +0000 
    
    Oh, you're hilarious. Now, if I wasn't so wordy, you wouldn't have as much 
    
    use for me now would you?!
Thanks, though; I look forward to talking with Griet.
From: "Jen L." <darwin@hotmail.com> 
    To: WilliamA@comcast.net 
    Subject: RE: Hope Griet contacted you 
    Date: Wed, 16 Jun 2004 15:57:45 +0000 
    
    
    Well, I haven't heard from Griet yet, but I would imagine she's very busy. 
    
    (Not sure how soon you'll get this, if you're out of an internet connection 
    
    for several days...)
I'm not at all offended about your mention of my "copious 
    talent!" (Believe 
    it or not, you're not the first to mention how wordy I can be...) Ha-ha.
I'll definitely be writing, working on probably several pieces 
    at once. My 
    biggest problem now is trying to compartmentalize my ideas into individual 
    
    pieces; everything does tie in together so nicely, it makes it difficult to 
    
    isolate single ideas into shorter pieces. I'm sure it will come together 
    once I shake off the jet lag and start working those Journalist muscles once 
    
    again.
Hope your move is going smoothly and you're getting settled! 
    Keep in mind, 
    following the guidance of SWMBO will almost never result in regret. We have 
    
    that natural instinct to be continuously serving the greater good of the 
    household and family, regardless of how much our nagging can often resemble 
    
    fingernails on a chalkboard. (It's a dirty job, but...)
Best to you!
    Jen
Notebook entry, June 25, 2004
More email catch-ups below:
From: WilliamA@comcast.net
    To: darwin@hotmail.com
    Subject: Sorry about Fri night phone call
    Date: Sat, 05 Jun 2004 00:27:25 +0000
Sorry Jennifer...about not calling back on Friday night....My 
    wife came home 
    and wanted me to do the cooking (which means I take her out to Dinner)
Geeech....I am a slave to the system!
Talked briefly with your daughter...she sounds very bright for 
    her age...10 
    or 11?
Will call Sat morning.
Bill
From: "Jen L." <darwin@hotmail.com> 
    To: WilliamA@comcast.net 
    Subject: RE: Sorry about Fri night phone call 
    Date: Sat, 5 Jun 2004 01:54:11 +0000 
    
    Oh, no problem! I didn't end up getting home until later than expected, and 
    
    couldn't quite tell from my caller ID if I missed your call or not. Jordan 
    
    also flitted off to the Roller Den shortly after I arrived, and hasn't been 
    
    so good lately about delivering phone messages.
So, Sat. morning would be perfectly fine, as would anytime tonight 
    until 11 
    or so (kinda a night owl!). Happy slaving!
From: "Jen L." <darwin@hotmail.com> 
    To: WilliamA@comcast.net 
    Subject: RE: Msg fm Bill Spriggs 
    Date: Mon, 14 Jun 2004 23:14:03 +0000 
    
    Bill,
    Yes, that was great talking to you! I'm afraid I have the same issues with 
    
    Peter regarding Ev Psych; mainly, though, because he doesn't like how it 
    breaks down sacred and magical concepts like love and attraction into raw 
    
    science, and particularly because it seems to (he believes) paint a grim 
    picture of our overall motivations- he likes to think we're above many of 
    
    these things.
I do very much miss having in-depth discussions on these matters; 
    the best I 
    could do for the last couple of years was "coach" a number of my 
    bar patrons 
    in their seemingly cliche relationship issues; something of an "Applied 
    
    Evolutionary Psychology," if you will. (Ever read the Mars vs. Venus 
    
    books?) I learned a lot along the way, though, as well. As long as I'm 
    unable to get someone to give me a huge grant to conduct an elaborate 
    survey, I'm stuck with the next best thing- listening to people talk about 
    
    themselves, and try to take into account the limits of my sample. (Men who 
    
    hang out in bars a lot are probably a bit more likely to be having rough 
    marriage patches- not to say causation, but definitely correlation.) And 
    actually, too, (you'll laugh) but my last couple of months bartending was 
    
    actually after the bar was converted to a "Gentlemen's Club," so 
    it provided 
    an extra bit of insight!
It's good you & Griet are discussing feminism's reluctancy 
    to make peace 
    with the evolutionary perspective; this is precisely what became the focus 
    
    of my efforts toward the end there. (Any current authors/articles you can 
    
    recommend on the subject, so I can play some quick catch-up?) I haven't 
    really kept up on the most recent perspectives of the feminist movement; I 
    
    guess I figured they'd be more, er... cooperative by now. Places like the 
    
    Learning Channel and Discovery Channel seem to have pretty frequent specials 
    
    on these days about our evolutionary origins and how they shape things like 
    
    attraction, child-rearing, etc.- I kinda assumed we were making it into the 
    
    mainstream. A piece I've actually been thinking a lot about has to do with 
    
    how our current society has actually become quite an indicative reflection 
    
    of many of these ev. theories for a while now- I've been making mental notes 
    
    of all sorts of movies, songs, other items in pop culture that reflect them, 
    
    and am hoping to tie them all together as examples of how the rapidly 
    changing political and economic climate have greatly influenced modern 
    (Western) mating strategies, power heirarchies, etc.
I'll definitely be thinking about film ideas; it's been churning 
    in my head 
    since you first mentioned it. Examining pop culture is definitely one 
    strong point, I think; when we present many of these theories about our 
    "nature" being influenced by our evolutionary past, it would be 
    very 
    illuminating to do something of a "tour" of modern culture that 
    demonstrates 
    the bizarre range of examples available to us every day that support these 
    
    theories.
I would, as I mentioned before, like to get my hands on some 
    tangible 
    arguments from the feminist community, however. Something I can really sink 
    
    my teeth into. I think the key to that whole reconciliation is going to 
    have to start with a strong persuasion that these ideas in NO WAY threaten 
    
    the position of women that the movement has toiled for long to create. It 
    
    has always been my belief that you can never go wrong with Truth based in 
    
    Science. Most importantly, I think there are a great many assumptions 
    within the feminist movement that actually prove dangerous to the 
    progression of women toward true freedom and equality. (Oooh, see... you 
    got me started! I'll stop here before I ramble on for too long!)
At any rate, I'll run for now- but like I said, anything in 
    the fem. 
    movement you can direct me to would be helpful to get me started. If Griet 
    
    has any suggestions for me, by all means- feel free to give her my email 
    address and welcome her to grab my ear for a bit!
Have plenty of fun with the move, too- good luck to you!
Jennifer
    ----Original Message Follows----
    From: WilliamA@comcast.net
    To: darwin@hotmail.com
    Subject: Msg fm Bill Spriggs
    Date: Mon, 14 Jun 2004 21:31:37 +0000
Hey Jen.
    It was great talking to you in person and you sound like you are in a better
    place then you were a few years ago. But it also seems from your email and
    phone conversation that you still yearn for more in terms of philosophical
    friendship and bonding. I know, I have the same problem with the people I 
    
    work with. Don't get me wrong, they are great people to work with, but they 
    get 
    that glazed over look in their eyes when I attempt to discuss evolutionary
    perspectives to them. My wife is very intelligent, but takes the devil's
    advocate in most of our discussions about evolution, and I have grown tired 
    
    of the constant battle -- I thought that spouses were supposed to be on the 
    same
    team! We get along by discussing other subjects. How do you and your husband
    relate when you approach him about evolution or feminism?
Griet Vandermassan and I have been exchanging emails concerning 
    how some
    feminists are taking a hard line against the evolutionary perspective and 
    
    she asked me how we could make the males less competitive and the females 
    more 
    aware of their matriarchal potential. I replied that first came the science 
    and 
    then the dissemination of that knowledge down to the common person. I suggested 
    
    that the way to do that would be through Hollywood, Bollywood, novels, plays, 
    and
    short stories. We have to make evolutionary feminism as a part of everyday
    lifeas knowing who Bittney Spears, J. Lo, Brad Pitt, etc. are. I also told 
    
    her that it would be quite a challenge, but an exciting one to attempt.
So, what I am saying to you is that you don't have to write 
    a "science 
    paper" to help with the cause. You can write fiction. In fact, I am churning 
    a few 
    ideas in my head concerning short films. If I am going to start somewhere, 
    it 
    might as well be with a subject that I am familiar with. So if you have any 
    ideas
    regarding short films themes, anything would be appreciated.
I bought a new house and will close on it tomorrow. Things are 
    stacked in boxes
    and the movers come on Thursday the 17th. My life is in chaos, but hopefully
    there will be no internet interruption for my emails, but please forgive if
    there is an interruption for a few days.
I'll be chatting with ya.
    Best always,
    Bill
Notebook entry, June 24, 2004
As previously noted in my entries, I am playing catch up with email correspondence because of the move the upheaveal that it has caused. Below, dated June the 2nd is a most welcome email from an old friend that will most likely have a profound effect on Evolution's Voyage.
-----Original Message-----
    From: Jen L. [mailto:darwin@hotmail.com] 
    Sent: Wednesday, June 02, 2004 5:40 PM
    To: wspriggs@evoyage.com
    Subject: Hello old friend!
Well Bill, I figured I was WAY overdue to drop a line and say 
    hello! You 
    probably don't recognize the email address; it's Jennifer Larson (Goehring,)
one of your first Guest Essayists!
I've been thinking about you a lot lately; checking in on your 
    site from 
    time to time, mostly fantasizing about how fabulous it would be if I could 
    
    be revelling in some evolutionary psychology-related career field by now. 
    
    But unfortunately, no!
The last time we talked, hmm... I think I remember. I was just 
    becoming GM 
    of a restaurant, which I ended up doing (24-7 it seemed!) for about 3 years.
 I've been mainly dinking around since then, mostly waiting 
    for someone to 
    drop a job in my lap, willing to pay me for what I love. Spent a bit of 
    time bartending; and if that's not a perfect atmosphere for some good field 
    
    study, I don't know what is! Currently I'm the office manager of a small 
    antique tractor shop part time, and trying to make a go of freelance website
design on the side. Haven't forgot about EP though! You'd be 
    proud; I've 
    been reading up on things, and definitely carving out my own theories. (I 
    
    could probably crank about a book's worth out on my computer if only 
    everyone would leave me alone for about a month, and not make me work... :) 
    
    Still keep checking periodically if a college somewhere within commuting 
    distance offers a graduate program related to this field. (No luck yet.)
So, how the heck are ya?? How is the site doing, your book, 
    etc.?? I'd 
    love to gab with you- let me know how it's going!
Look forward to hearing from you,
    Jennifer
----Original Message Follows----
    From: William@comcast.net
    To: darwin@hotmail.com
    Subject: Msg fm Evolution's Voyage
    Date: Fri, 04 Jun 2004 14:46:31 +0000
HelloJennifer
Hey babes! How they hanging?!! Great to hear from you again!!. 
    Yes, Yes, 
    Yes, I missed you and I will not forgive you for leaving me and all of 
    feminist out there waiting to hear more from you. Are you ready to go back 
    
    to work and post some more pieces???
1st off, please note the new email address. The evoyage.com 
    address is 
    still there, but is now so cluddered with spam, that it is getting very hard 
    
    to tell the real messages from the advertisements – so use the 
    WilliamASpriggs@comcast.net as a direct second email address.
Things here are about the same as with you….stuck in a 
    dead end job and 
    getting little, or no respect back from the man who employs us, but the web 
    
    site is still alive and kicking and is the sole repository of my pride and 
    
    dignity. I’ve given up trying to make a fortune with the web site 
    surrounding my writings and decided to go the Michael Moore route.. I took 
    
    a short, intensive, one-day course on short film making and decided that 
    this would be the next phase of Evolution’ Voyage. I strongly feel that 
    the 
    kids today are “too busy” to read and have turned into a “video” 
    dependent 
    sub-species. Also, I have decided to “specialize” in the field 
    of 
    evolutionary feminism. So the goal is to make short films with emphasis on 
    
    evolutionary feminism as the spoke of the wheel. What to come along for the 
    
    Voyage???
Guess what? Your writing has attracted a real live doctoral 
    candidate in 
    Belgium and you have inspired her to call herself a “Darwinian feminist.” 
    
    Her name is Griet Vandermassen, (pronounced “Greet”) You can read 
    two of her 
    pieces on the web page I have titled, “What is Evolutionary Feminism?”
    http://www.evoyage.com/Evolutionary%20Feminism/WhatisEvoFeminism.htm
Think I am kidding about your influence on her? Here is a paste 
    and copy 
    from my Notebook entry of May 7th, 2004: I was writing to tell her that I 
    
    did not think my work was of interest to academics…and her reply was:
“I do not think that you are right in supposing that your 
    explorations of 
    evolutionary feminism are not of interest to academics. For one, they are 
    of 
    interest to me. And one of the first articles that made me realize that 
    Darwinism and feminism are not incompatible was by Jennifer Goehring, and 
    I 
    plucked it from Evolution's Voyage. You never know what way the things that 
    
    you do are of influence to others...”
And why should this matter? Because she is going to be published 
    in book 
    form later this year or early 2005, and she has told me that she is going 
    to 
    mention Evolution’s Voyage in her acknowledgement section.
There is too much to cover in the time I have available….Like 
    I bought a new 
    house and plan to close on June 15th, and the house is a mess because we are 
    
    going to sell this one next!!! So give me your telephone number with area 
    
    code and the best time to chat and I will catch up even more….and plan 
    for 
    the future….Think Cannes Film Festival baby!!! WE CAN MAKE IT HAPPEN 
    IF WE 
    BELIEVE!!!!
Best always,
    Bill Spriggs
From: "Jen L." <darwinlady@hotmail.com> 
    To: WilliamASpriggs@comcast.net 
    Subject: RE: Msg fm Evolution's Voyage 
    Date: Fri, 4 Jun 2004 16:16:04 +0000 
    
    Bill-
    Wow! So glad to see the wheels are still spinning! I did, in fact, notice 
    
    Griet's mention of me in her email; after I wrote to you I read through your 
    
    little daily entries page to see what you had to say, and got pretty 
    interested in her discussion with you about Evolutionary Feminism. Much to 
    
    my surprise, I'm reading along and there's my name! I was actually poking 
    
    around the site more after that, trying to figure out exactly who she was.
It's funny; after that, on a whim, I did a Google search for 
    my name and 
    came up with quite a few hits- mostly for my articles going back to your 
    site, but there's a few in there from other sites that have found them and 
    
    posted them as well! Pretty exciting!
It's so exciting to see the direction you've been heading in. 
    I must admit, 
    the more I read through your ev. feminism notes, the more I realized how 
    much I miss "being in the loop!" I would absolutely love to write 
    again for 
    you; I'm so glad you asked!
So, film crew, eh?? That's such a FABULOUS idea! I can't wait 
    to hear 
    more. I'm a huge fan of Michael Moore myself; I actually met him once- he 
    
    was an intro speaker here in Madison when Nader came to town during the last 
    
    election.
Wow- there's so much to talk about! I know we'll have lots to 
    catch up on, 
    talking "shop." Although I haven't had much time to put pen to paper, 
    these 
    ideas have still been actively churning through my mind the last few years, 
    
    and I've been thinking a lot about how they all tie in to so much in our 
    society right now. Hey- let me ask you something: was it you who first 
    pointed me to "the Treatise of Love," by Anatoly Protopopov? The 
    first time 
    I read it was years ago, and at the time the translation to english was so 
    
    bad it was hard to get through. Just last year I stumbled upon it again, 
    it's been re-translated and is 100% better; there's so many fascinating 
    ideas and insights in that paper, I'm dying to know your thoughts.
I've also been reading as much as I can from Laura Kipnis- heard 
    of her? 
    She's got a book out called "Against Love," and a few other shorter 
    pieces 
    about relationships, things like adultery- very controversial stuff- mostly 
    
    relating to gender roles and stereotypes about women's sexuality. Very 
    fascinating.
I can tell I'm going to need to sit down at my keyboard and 
    let my brain 
    just pour out for a while- get it all down and then start organizing my 
    thoughts. Particularly this idea about Ev. Feminism, or Darwinian Feminism. 
    
    Let me ask you something- I haven't seen those terms floating around yet; 
    
    are we... starting something new here? Coining a new phrase? It's 
    definitely the kind of thing that would grab the public's eye. It sounds 
    like Griet is helping you to sort out and define the terms. How absolutely 
    
    fabulous!
Well, I could write on for hours but I better not for now-- 
    I do expect to 
    be around most of tonight and over the weekend; evenings are typically good 
    
    for me. My home # is: 607-324-2443. Can't wait to chat more!
Jennifer
Notebook entry, June 23, 2004
Let me play catchup here with some of my email correspondence. Below, are exchanges with Griet Vandermassen:
From: Evolutionary@comcast.net 
    To: Griet.Vandermassen@UGent
    Subject: Final version to Rowman & Littefield 
    Date: Fri, 4 Jun 2004 22:06:45 +0000 
    
    Good luck with the final version.
No hurry on the visit to evoyage.
    Surprise -- Jennifer Goehring (now Jennifer Larson) has been in touch and 
    wants 
    to start writing again.Thanks for the support about your name linked to The 
    Three Principles (after 
    re-write, of course).
    And Ill be in touch when I am done with the book reveiw for A Mind Of Her 
    Own.
    Again, good luck with the final version
    Best always,
    Bill
 From: "Griet Vandermassen" <Griet.Vandermassen@UGent> 
    
    To: <EvolutionaryFem@comcast.net> 
    Subject: evolutionary feminism 
    Date: Sat, 12 Jun 2004 18:24:29 +0000 
  
From: EvolutionaryFem@comcast.net 
    To: Griet.Vandermassen@UGent
    Subject: Re: Evolutionary feminism 
    Date: Mon, 14 Jun 2004 21:29:26 +0000 
    
    
    Hi Griet:
    Please forgive the strange format. I replied earlier in the day to your 12 
    June 
    email, but no evidence of it being sent has shown up in my "sent box," 
    so I 
    pasted your email below this one to keep the exchange connected. If you have 
    
    received the earlier message, please forgive.
    ***
    Yes, the Fukuyama article was good, and I was taken aback by the strong negative 
    
    tone taken by Ehrenreich and Pollit's response. I normally admire the work 
    that 
    they both do in their political arena here in America. I suppose this response 
    
    is the other side of the feminine spectrum that I discussed in the Three 
    Principles...These two would NOT turn their backs on their fellow sisters, 
    yet 
    at the same time they would deny the overwhelming biological truth that is 
    being 
    unveiled. I suppose that the reason for the strong reaction is the fear that 
    if 
    the biological truth be told that it would give enormous strength to those 
    who 
    support the dominate, oppressive patriarchal system. Their "evidence" 
    is 
    recorded human history and that is some powerful evidence. 
How do we turn the world upside down and make it matriarchal??? 
    Well, I do know 
    that there are at least two communities on the planet that are totally 
    matriarchal, and life there is wonderful. but I don't have the citations 
    available to me (One is in SW China and the other is in NW Pakistan? -- so, 
    I 
    know that it is possible and not just a dream).
    
    I believe the key is knowing that evolutionary psychology is a combination 
    of 
    genes plus culture, or as some call, the bioculutral sphere. The biology is 
    
    center core of all human behaviors, but as the human learns to adapt to the 
    
    local environment, the human animal must adjust to the local culture that 
    
    surrounds the individual THAT WAS ESTABLISHED BEFORE THEY were born; they 
    adapt 
    or they perish. (by the way, this the fourth principle of evolutionary feminism 
    
    -- but, I've been thinking of making it the second in the 3 
    principles...shifting no. 2 to 3 or perhaps fourth- as it is pretty universal). 
  
As for overcoming generations and generations of behaviors and 
    turning our 
    planet into matriarchies, that is the real challenge and exciting part. It 
    
    starts of course with science, and the truth that it brings. The next key 
    would 
    be having the science trickle down to the common people. The more that they 
    
    know the truth, the more will form a global consciousness that is attuned 
    to the 
    greatest good for the planet. As each nation evolves and develops a sense 
    of it 
    own self, so too will the population of the planet become aware of each other 
    as 
    they expand their populations and thoughts through the Internet. 
How do we trickle down the science? Through plays, movies, novels, 
    and of 
    course, web sites dedicated to teaching the common person about evolutionary 
    
    psychology AND THE EXCITING NEW FIELD OF EVOLUTIONARY FEMINISM. Hahahaha. 
    And 
    you have to keep laughing most of the time. 
So of course, if your not doing anything for the next twenty 
    years, perhaps you 
    would like to join in this new Voyage of exploring a new realm and passing 
    the 
    torch to a new generation of humans who know that there is a better way (That 
    
    means the females -- and the males that support them).
I'll be signing the papers on a new home tomorrow, the 15th, 
    but the Internet 
    cable people are scheduled to arrive on Fri to reconnect me. There are boxes 
    
    stacked everywhere. If there is a delay in my responding to your next email, 
    
    please be patient.
I'll be musing on the 4th principle and the rewrite for the 
    summer, but let's 
    remain in touch as I enjoy the exchange. 
Best always,
    Bill
From: EvolutionaryFem@comcast.net 
    To: Griet.Vandermassen@UGent
    Subject: Back in contact after move 
    Date: Sat, 19 Jun 2004 11:22:48 +0000 
    
    Hello Griet
    This is just a quick not to let you know I'm back in contact
    after moving to a new house. 
    Its a nice peaceful location....almost semi-rural. That's the good news. The 
    
    bad news is that most items are still in boxes.
    Ill be in touch.
Best always, 
    Bill
  
Notebook entry, June 23, 2004
This is my first entry since the move. God, it is awful! Opened, yet unemptied boxes are everywhere and items are still missing that are essential. I estimate that we are only about 50% unpacked. The movers gave us a bit of interesting information: That a family will collect about 1,000 lbs. of items for each year that they are together -- I believe it! The movers packed this four-ton truck until the sides of the truck started to expand, and the move took seven hours and cost me a pretty penny.
In terms of writing, I estimate it may be till the fall until I finish anything substantial in writing or study. Sigh.....I think that when I look back, this past ten months will be the worst in terms of producing any work. May history be kind in its judgment.
Notebook entry, June 12, 2004
In preparation for the move to our new house, I am in the process of packing everything into boxes. As a result, the house is a mess, and so are my studies. Moving creates chaos, which creates instability, and being in a state of flux makes it impossible to remember what, where, and when ....etc. The "closing" of the Real Estate transaction is on the 15th and the movers come for the large items on the 17th. The cable person comes on the 18th to reconnect the cable, and I suspect that within a few days after that, I should be back online. Stay tuned Space Cadets -- which truly describes my current state of mind.
Notebook entry, June 2, 2004
From: EvolutionaryFeminist@comcast.net 
    To: "Griet Vandermassen" <Griet.Vandermassen@UGent.be> 
    Subject: Re: worried 
    Date: Thu, 3 Jun 2004 12:09:17 +0000 
    
    June 3rd. 
Wow!...I think we are connected via a subconscious connection. 
    Yes, I did sulk 
    like a little boy whose feelings were hurt....but I grew up overnight and 
    got 
    over it. Here is my response. Love ya. Bill
June 2nd
    Sorry for the delay in responding to your last email. Domestic problems (my 
    
    sister-in-law) here have prevented me from concentrating on the subject at 
    hand. 
    My wife and I had to put her on a train back to New York City after living 
    with 
    us for nine months in her vain attempt to find employment. We both came to 
    the 
    conclusion that the only thing our sister was accomplishing successfully was 
    
    staying in the house and watching television. There is no harder rock to move 
    
    than a blood relative who has lost all confidence in oneself and has decided 
    to 
    become a free rider. She really did not want to go, and the resulting domestic 
    
    conflict was not a pretty sight for the past six weeks; verbal daggers were 
    
    flying back and forth, and the tension in the house was so thick that you 
    could 
    cut it with a knife; not very conducive to the thought process. The sister 
    will 
    be staying with an aunt who is 87 and needs assistance; perhaps there she 
    will 
    be more welcome to a person requiring a companion.
I glad that you gained experience by attending the conference 
    in Berlin; 
    conferences are extremely important as they shape our place in the hierarchical 
    
    position of your peers who have similar interests. Human networks and alliances 
    
    are really what drive most in our species. 
How exciting that you got to chat with Ms. Browne! I believe 
    that Darwin’s 
    conflict was that he did not want to “rock the boat” with his 
    Victorian 
    colleagues in arguing more strongly on female choice – he was in enough 
    trouble 
    with the general population as it was with the theory of natural selection. 
  
It also gives us a clue about the power of socialization as 
    the final tipping 
    scale in the nature vs. nurture, genes vs. culture debate. To some, it is 
    in 
    their best biological interest to go along with the crowd in power and conform 
    
    to dictates of social environment – but at the cost of some progress. 
    Progress 
    is made by those willing to stick their necks out and present novel and unique 
    
    ideas (If you think about it, novel ideas are “mutations” that 
    create changes). 
Which brings me back to Anne Campbell’s book, A Mind of 
    Her Own; the 
    presentation of my three principles of evolutionary feminism, and my “confusion” 
    
    of glorifying some females for competitiveness while “chiding” 
    others for 
    “turning their backs on their sisters.” And, as a result, my presentation 
    of 
    the three principles of evolutionary feminism is very vague, and I want to 
    thank 
    you for your frank and honest opinion regarding your feedback of the piece. 
  
I agree -- I believe the text lacks clarity and coherence. For 
    that reason, I 
    have pulled the three principles from the web site till I rewrite the passages. 
  
The second reason for pulling the piece is that I should not 
    have placed it 
    preceding the link to your paper, Male Bias, on the same page as yours. Some 
    
    reader could have interpreted that you “approved” of the three 
    principles and 
    agreed to link your paper to the three principles. It’s my neck out 
    there, and 
    it should not be yours. The three principles will go elsewhere after the 
    rewrite. 
Another reason for pulling the three principles is that normally 
    I complete one 
    project before starting another one -- and that was not done this time. I 
    was 
    working on the book review for A Mind of Her Own and then, on a lark, began 
    
    writing the three principles. Perhaps, I was too much of a hurry to put the 
    
    words down that were forming in the back of my mind. I should have finished 
    
    the book review, because on page 305, Ms. Campbell gives her interpretation 
    on 
    the interactions between genes, mind, experience and culture, and this important 
    
    theory goes a long way in explaining the reason why some women support 
    patriarchies and “turn their back on their sisters,” while others 
    do not. When 
    I review the book I will add my own pieces to the Campbell puzzle created, 
    and 
    attempt to further explain how I think the whole bioculture continuum works. 
  
In the meantime, I suggest you go back to the page and read 
    some material that I 
    have added below your link. In particular the two articles that have appeared 
    
    in Foreign Affairs ?journal? Read first, Women and the Evolution of World 
    
    Politics where Francis Fukuyama argues to the world that the female is 
    non-aggressive and can lead us to a peaceful world (my view), and the feminist 
    
    denial response (Fukuyama’s Follies). It is an important exchange of 
    ideas on a 
    global scale, and I believe, an important bit of history. Foreign Affairs 
    is an 
    influential journal in international relations. 
Ok, that is it for now. For the next several weeks, I have to 
    concentrate on 
    the move of my household into a new one, and the selling of the one that I 
    am 
    presently living in (more distractions!!!!), plus still keep my day time 
    schedule of working 42 hours a week and making a living. And in the meantime, 
    
    I’ll finish the work on the book review of A Mind of Her Own, and rewrite 
    the 
    three principles. 
Keep in touch. Tell me all the “juicy” gossip from 
    the Berlin HBES meeting, and 
    have a glorious summer. 
Enjoy the Voyage
    Bill @ Evolution’s Voyage